I’ve been asked recently by a lot of people “Why do you run?”
The short answer is that I run to escape this world and find peace and contentment within myself. I run to feel free and strong, to feel confident and to feel good about myself. For me, it is fair to say that it has become an addiction, a way of life.
Those that know me will know of my competitive instinct. The competition in running however is not against other runners, or even the course. Rather, it’s against that little voice in your head that keeps telling you to quit when the going gets tough and the muscles get tired. It is testing yourself against your own limits, or rather the limits that your mind tries to convince you that you have.
Each run allows me to get out into the world. We spend so much time indoors that getting out running can be a release in itself. When you’re alone with the elements, whether you’re battling the pouring rain and howling wind at 6am or wilting under the scorching sun on a lunch-time break from work, there is a sense of calmness (after the initial thought of “Why the hell am I doing this again”) and a willingness to embrace those challenges and experiences.
When I’ve finished a 10k, half-marathon or marathon, and indeed every training run leading up to those races, I’ve had an enormous sense of accomplishment, achievement and elation. That’s why I run. Because the best things in life always start out hard and end up wonderful.
I’ve learnt though, that you need to value those moments, because sometimes you never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory. I’ve been guilty of that in the past, and although it is easy to say that with hindsight, it has probably meant that I have not enjoyed some things in my life which I wish now that I had. You have to live the moment before it becomes that memory.
I’ve suffered from the odd negative and stressful period in my life caused by various situations and circumstances, as I am sure many of you reading this have too, and running has became an excellent coping mechanism.
You will have heard of the phrase “runner’s high”. The feeling of elation and adrenaline rush at the end of each run, however minimal, is a great tonic and confidence booster and can allow the endorphins to balance out any negative thoughts, anxiety or stress that you might suffer.
Over the past 8 years, running has become a tool that enables me to balance my emotions, remove any frustrations, gather my thoughts and to try and find solutions to whatever problem is affecting me at a particular time.
Until 2010, I had never run more than 5k. Put simply, I hated it. A regular participant in team sports, I found it boring and uninspiring. However, I must admit that I was also worried about how I ran, and whether I was quick enough compared to those who I saw regularly out pounding the pavements. This was one of the issues that stopped me taking up running earlier than I did; and I regret that now.
Everyone has to start somewhere, and many feel embarrassed about attempting something new, particularly exercise, for a variety of different but equally valid reasons. My advice to those who feel that way would be to forget those inhibitions, and to adapt a well-known phrase “Run (Dance) like no one is watching you”. I say that because, in reality, they’re not.
If you look around you when you venture out running, or even for a walk, everyone who you pass is so self-absorbed in their own world that they probably won’t even notice you.
Most people you pass will be scrolling on their smartphone, others will be talking to their travelling companion, drivers will be watching the road and other road users, lots will be thinking of and worrying about their own troubles, whilst the majority will most likely simply be wondering what to have for dinner.
The ones who do see you are most likely runners themselves who know how difficult it can be to get motivated, or indeed it may be someone who you might just inspire to also give running a go.
Can you imagine the thought that you might have inspired someone to do something different and rewarding? How good and self-motivated will that make you feel? Can you imagine the sense of pride and achievement?
The initial phase when you begin running might feel uncomfortable, particularly as people feel they need to run quickly. Start slowly, and don’t be ashamed of walking and running, making sure that you build up slowly with realistic targets along the way. There are lots of online training guides which will be able to guide, support and motivate you. Apps such as Couch to 5k are becoming increasingly well-known and used by many new to running.
It’s also not just about running marathons or half-marathons, you can get the same encouragement and sense of achievement from running with friends, taking part in one of the many “Race for Life” events up and down the country, or by doing Park-runs. Whatever your reason or motivation, you’ll find that there are many more in the same boat as you now and previously.
The founder of ParkRun, Paul Sinton Hewitt, has some great advice for those who are considering taking up running: “Run so you can enjoy it. It’s a hard sport and can easily become a chore. It can seem as though only if you’re naturally good at it can you balance the effort and pain of achieving something with the delight of having achieved it. But most people are not natural runners, so to enjoy the process of running it might mean slowing down a bit, or being at one with nature. Or sharing your run with other people.”
I find it incredibly rewarding and confidence boosting that I’m fitter and faster than I’ve ever been. The older I have got the faster I’ve become, which you can’t say in the majority of sports, and certainly not the team sports that I used to play when I was younger.
Running provides you with the chance to overcome all obstacles, to fight through the pain and suffering to test your emotional limits and boundaries, and to discover just how far you can push yourself. It allows you to be the best version of yourself.
There is a calmness and focus that running brings, and whilst it is obviously beneficial for your physical health, it will help your mental health too. Once you’ve started, stick with it and it can change your life forever. It has changed mine, and that is why I run.
Go on, give it a go. What is there to lose? Find your “Why”.